Give her a shoulder massage, or a scalp massage if you know how to do it, when she's looking tense - or even when she's not! Faster ejaculation on the left, maybe? We'd only do that in the context of a loving relationship, but she can look into my eyes and see the desire there as I enter her, and I guess that lets her fantasize about how much men might want to have sex with her. Other sexual techniques which are variations of the man on top, but which don't allow the man to achieve very deep penetration, are the ones where the man is kneeling - see these in the pictures below. Equally, women want to be protected and loved, they don't want to feel vulnerable during sex, and guess what? For man on top, you have to ensure that your hips are free to move, so that you can thrust your penis in and out of your partner's vagina. When it comes to how often, as we mentioned above, the more you have sex throughout the month, the more likely you are to hit your baby making window. It isn't a position that all men will appreciate, because it puts a lot of pressure on your penis when your partner sits on you facing away - and for men who have a small, hard erect penis that points upright when they are fully aroused, it may even be impossible to get into this position. Kiss her in a public place - she might be embarrassed, but secretly she'll love it. Make everything you do in the bedroom slow and sensual, including undressing her. Compared to a slower approach to climax - probably - in the second picture, but in the third, the deeper penetration achieved with her legs back may speed things up even though he's not supporting his weight as much. The truth here, of course, is that deeper penetration may well activate her G spot if she is highly aroused, and cause her to orgasm more easily!