I was very lucky. Jill and Jessa each had two sons within their first four years of marriage, and Joy-Anna welcomed her first child about 9 months after tying the knot. They can only "side hug" their dates before their wedding day, though they are allowed to hold hands once they're engaged. It has been estimated that Jill has done over 60, treatments over the course of her career. Just bear in mind that no one is wrong, we just come from different family system and you have to come together to build your own. The family losing out on its reality TV show didn't quiet Derick. They don't drink alcohol According to a survey by the National Institute of Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism, 86 percent of Americans over the age of 18 have consumed alcohol at least once in their lifetime, so the Duggar daughters and their husbands definitely break with the norm by refusing any alcoholic beverages. Among some of the family's more unusual habits? As for Joy-Anna, she said "I do" at only I went into my job because I like helping people and I enjoy people. I'm not perfect, but I sought out accountability and I now see great victory in my life. All of the daughters threw dry weddings, and both Jinger and Jill have revealed on social media that they drink sparkling juice for special occasions. Michelle wrote in a blog post , "Don't ever put your husband down in front of your children or other people, especially your families. However, I also took my daughter to work with me a lot, and today she works for me in that same company as our Marketing Director. Her husband remodels houses, and Joy-Anna has been known to help him on the job site. And we are putting it into his hands.