He would literally date and have sex with 3—4 females every single day. I also no longer debate what I do sexually based on how another man or woman would feel. One said she had a rule that the men she dated could have a maximum of 20 sex partners, no more. Supposedly he was an evil predator or something in the new feminist way of thinking, but back then, everyone loved these guys. Yes, of course, I know the triggers and the mechanisms of the female brain, and yes, multiple and massive orgasms do bind women to me and that gives me power and a measure of control in my life, enhancing the sense of safety that I and we all seek. But buying into double standards never improved anyone's sex life. At my age 60 , women actually ask how many sex partners you have had. This all stems from a society where women are taught that sleeping with one too many men is promiscuous, and that choosing not to be as sexually active or choosing abstinence will make you a prude. I have been with hundreds of women, worked assiduously since early teenage in learning all methods, Eastern, Weatern, Kama Sutra, tantra, yoga, Ciallis, caresses and whips, Sex Magick, satanism, adoration…. Yet, men are able to sleep with as many women as they choose without fear of comments and rejection. Asking someone, "What's your body count? Also, it can create tension if the number is not something that was expected. We can't tell you what numberof partners you might regret, we can only tell you the kind of sex you might regret and no, we're not talking about positions or orifices. This mindset has transferred from men to women, as now women will also judge another woman based on how many men she has allegedly slept with. Helped a lot with my fear of abandonment.