As the body is excited and turned on, the breath becomes more urgent and rapid. Of course, this could all just be talk, but if she's comfortable enough with herself and you to go this far, then she may be ready for more. Avoid sticking to a routine or becoming predictable. So it's left to you to unravel the mystery of their look, sigh or grump. If you're already in the bedroom and part -- or most -- of your clothes are off, then it is time to ask her for confirmation that she is ready to take things to the next level. If you've never been alone in her place before, and she invites you in, then she may be telling you she wants something more from you. Some amount of contraction and relaxation that you may feel could be for her own pleasure, but pay close attention to what her overall intensity is telling you. Method Notice Her Words 1 See if she's talking about sex more often. Spice things up with experimentation, teasing and tantalizing your partner and keep an eye out for fake moans and forced emotions. If she conveniently picks a date night location near her place and then casually steers you in the direction of her home, then she may be telling you that she wants to get intimate. Since they manage to take the same trait into the bedroom and you might find yourself befuddled at her reactions, wondering if she's rubbing up against you out of extreme desire or as a distraction tactic to get you to stop doing what you're doing. Some girls give oral sex way before they're ready to have sex, while others aren't comfortable giving oral sex until after sex -- or they don't give it at all. This depends on how fast things progress.